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	<title>Comments for Strong At The Heart</title>
	<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog</link>
	<description>A Book for Teens &#038; Adults</description>
	<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:33:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on mailbag by Sheena Johnston</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2008/02/07/mailbag/#comment-45182</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hi carolyn, this is sheena the one in the book....i just wanted to say hello and thanks for everything....telling you what happened to me helped me get through the rough times, and now i have a little boy named keastyn... he is my angel and the reason for living! well bye for now and get back to me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi carolyn, this is sheena the one in the book&#8230;.i just wanted to say hello and thanks for everything&#8230;.telling you what happened to me helped me get through the rough times, and now i have a little boy named keastyn&#8230; he is my angel and the reason for living! well bye for now and get back to me
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		<title>Comment on sweet award by marj aka thriver</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2008/04/12/sweet-award/#comment-34943</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2008 14:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Congratulations on a well-deserved award.  I hope the conference went well.</description>
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		<title>Comment on sweet award by Hailey</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2008/04/12/sweet-award/#comment-28791</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hi, my name is Hailey and I'm 12 years old.  My brother, Alexander passed away in 2006 from a heart defect and now I keep a blog in his memory to reach out to other kids and families and do acts of kindness in my brothers name.  I found your site and wanted to give you Alexanders award for having a site that spreads the message of hope and love. 

I don't know how to do html so please visit my blog www.alexandersheart.blogspot.com and copy the award to put on your site. If you wish, give this award to 3-5 other blogs or sites you feel share the message of hope and love as well.   God bless, Hailey</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, my name is Hailey and I&#8217;m 12 years old.  My brother, Alexander passed away in 2006 from a heart defect and now I keep a blog in his memory to reach out to other kids and families and do acts of kindness in my brothers name.  I found your site and wanted to give you Alexanders award for having a site that spreads the message of hope and love. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know how to do html so please visit my blog <a href="http://www.alexandersheart.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">www.alexandersheart.blogspot.com</a> and copy the award to put on your site. If you wish, give this award to 3-5 other blogs or sites you feel share the message of hope and love as well.   God bless, Hailey
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		<title>Comment on letters vs email by Rachel Wolf</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2006/09/10/letters-vs-email/#comment-28757</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 00:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Found this blog by searching on Yahoo. I'm doing a paper on the differences between e-mail and handwritten communication and have found your opinion wonderful. Hope you don't mind me using it in the paper, you have been given proper credit. If you don't want me to quote this post, please let me know. Rachel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Found this blog by searching on Yahoo. I&#8217;m doing a paper on the differences between e-mail and handwritten communication and have found your opinion wonderful. Hope you don&#8217;t mind me using it in the paper, you have been given proper credit. If you don&#8217;t want me to quote this post, please let me know. Rachel
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		<title>Comment on that kind of day by Carolyn Lehman</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2006/05/04/that-kind-of-day/#comment-27428</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2006/05/04/that-kind-of-day/#comment-27428</guid>
					<description>Dear Courtney--

My heart aches for the injustice that you---and so many of us---endured.  

What I hope this site, and the book, can say to you is "Don't give up!"

So many survivors I know, myself included, have felt as you do.  The majority of the people interviewed for the book were suicidal at one point or another in their lives.  

The key thing is that they held on.  They kept telling until they got help that REALLY HELPED.  (That means telling friends, family that you trust, social workers, school counselors, parents of friends, other survivors, therapists, pastors, pets, etc.)  And then they kept working on healing.

Don't let the unjust justice system stop you from healing your own life.

There is an and to abuse, to the depression and isolation that often follows, to the feelings of helplessness and rage.

Finding this website means that you are already reaching out.  Keep it up.  Someday you will look back and be amazed at the distance you will have come.  And you will appreciate the courage that it took to survive your childhood and to live the life of your own choosing. 

Carolyn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Courtney&#8211;</p>
<p>My heart aches for the injustice that you&#8212;and so many of us&#8212;endured.  </p>
<p>What I hope this site, and the book, can say to you is &#8220;Don&#8217;t give up!&#8221;</p>
<p>So many survivors I know, myself included, have felt as you do.  The majority of the people interviewed for the book were suicidal at one point or another in their lives.  </p>
<p>The key thing is that they held on.  They kept telling until they got help that REALLY HELPED.  (That means telling friends, family that you trust, social workers, school counselors, parents of friends, other survivors, therapists, pastors, pets, etc.)  And then they kept working on healing.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let the unjust justice system stop you from healing your own life.</p>
<p>There is an and to abuse, to the depression and isolation that often follows, to the feelings of helplessness and rage.</p>
<p>Finding this website means that you are already reaching out.  Keep it up.  Someday you will look back and be amazed at the distance you will have come.  And you will appreciate the courage that it took to survive your childhood and to live the life of your own choosing. </p>
<p>Carolyn
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		<title>Comment on that kind of day by courtney</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2006/05/04/that-kind-of-day/#comment-27343</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2006/05/04/that-kind-of-day/#comment-27343</guid>
					<description>your site helped. but when you 17 years old and you have been molested my the man who was going to adopt you. your world shatters all around you. i talk about it write about it. and cry it out. it doesnt matter. it happend and nothing is going to change that. i just hate when justice wasnt served. the man who hurt me and my sister got off the hook. yeah he sees a theripist, but thats all.and the judge acted like he didnt care. he said if i knew it was going to keep happening why did i put my self in the situatation. funny... what was i supose to do. i lived with him. now that i wasnt adopted and now am in foster care. life couldnt get any worse. eventually you just want to give up..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your site helped. but when you 17 years old and you have been molested my the man who was going to adopt you. your world shatters all around you. i talk about it write about it. and cry it out. it doesnt matter. it happend and nothing is going to change that. i just hate when justice wasnt served. the man who hurt me and my sister got off the hook. yeah he sees a theripist, but thats all.and the judge acted like he didnt care. he said if i knew it was going to keep happening why did i put my self in the situatation. funny&#8230; what was i supose to do. i lived with him. now that i wasnt adopted and now am in foster care. life couldnt get any worse. eventually you just want to give up..
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		<title>Comment on male survivor film by Hindel Friedman</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6600</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jul 2007 18:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6600</guid>
					<description>Eagerly awiating this film! I appreciate the voice to give to the victims.</description>
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		<title>Comment on male survivor film by marj aka thriver</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6150</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2007 17:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6150</guid>
					<description>I got there just fine.  great advocacy and awareness site--thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got there just fine.  great advocacy and awareness site&#8211;thanks for sharing.
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		<title>Comment on male survivor film by Carolyn Lehman</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6097</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 13:34:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Thanks, Izzy,  For some unknown reason my blog program won't let me add new links when I edit a post, so I took out the faulty one and put in the full url.  Readers will have to cut and paste, but they should reach you.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Izzy,  For some unknown reason my blog program won&#8217;t let me add new links when I edit a post, so I took out the faulty one and put in the full url.  Readers will have to cut and paste, but they should reach you.
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		<title>Comment on male survivor film by Israel Moskovits</title>
		<link>http://strongattheheart.com/blog/2007/06/21/male-survivor-film/#comment-6070</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2007 22:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hey, I just wanted to say that the posted link isn't working. The correct link is http://www.narrowbridgefilm.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, I just wanted to say that the posted link isn&#8217;t working. The correct link is <a href="http://www.narrowbridgefilm.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.narrowbridgefilm.com</a>
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